Thursday, November 3, 2011

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

You've Got Mail

Eden was very familiar with my family so when I decided to take a weekend trip home a few weeks later I invited him and my roommate to join me, and I wanted them to drive. I was a horrible driver and extremely lazy on the road. He agreed and so did the roomie and Friday after work we hit the road.



Once in VA I immediately caught up with friends and hung out and it was a smooth sailing weekend. On Saturday night we were at my Nana's house and I noticed Eden had left his phone in the kitchen by the sink. So stupid, all he needed was for water to hit it and BAM phone destroyed. I picked it up and a light immediately flashed on letting me see the screen. It was a picture of a girls boobs. Curiosity got the best of me and I started to see who had sent it or was it from a porn site of some sort but then the phone began to ring and a Maryland number flashed on the screen. Just my luck he ran to the kitchen hearing it and it definitely looked like I had been snooping with his phone in my hand. He made quick eye contact with me and got the phone, glanced at the screen, and silenced it. I hated when guys did that cause now I was super curious.



"Whose chest is that on your phone?" I asked, and he just looked confused "Titties, Ta-Ta's, breast? Ring a bell?"



He smirked at me "Jaycee that's what you get for being nosey its from that Girls Gone Wild website."



Did I look dumb nothing about that picture was professional, that was a personal image and I told him so and of course he denied it "Ill go online right now Jaycee and show you the site, its not that serious."



"Well do it then" I dared him knowing he had expected me to say no.



"Okay, okay its not from a site, a girl I was seeing before me and you started hanging back out sent it." he admitted. Same liar different day, I thought to myself.



I dropped the subject for now and went to find Dana, I told her what had went down and later when Eden was napping we like the girls we are attacked that phone, and boy did he lie! Eden and "mystery girl" had been sending picture mail all day of various body parts, the nerve of him to be out of town with me entertaining the next chick.



As we were browsing that Maryland number popped up again and this time I noticed it was the same number the pictures had been sent from. Without thinking I answered, I had to know who she was. Even tho I already knew he had lied the more information I had the better.



"Hello" I answered as me and Dana stepped onto the front porch just in case this got ugly.

"Whose this?" the girl said with much attitude.



"Jaycee, and you are?"



"Not calling for you, wheres Eden?" she replied. She had some nerve getting smart with me.



"In my bed sleep Ms. Porn Star sending ya coochie through a text message, we got a good laugh off of that one, you don't think guys share those pictures, have some respect for yourself!" I shot back. Dana was right there egging me on, instead of encouraging me to end the call before this went to far. Meanwhile the girl was going off and before I could respond the phone was snatched out of my hand.



"Jaycee what the hell is wrong with you?" Eden.

I didnt even care that I'd been caught so I began to yell about how he lied and how disrespectful that was to be doing that while he was with me. He didnt budge and that made me madder "SAY SOMETHING!"

"Are we together? If we are together Ill call her right now and tell her dont send anything else and that will be that, if we arent then Im not doing anything wrong" he compromised.

I didn't want to be Eden's girlfriend again, it just wasn't smart, but I was so pissed that I hadn't got the last word in with old girl that I was desperate for Eden to call her back and put her in her place. Was it worth me settling again just for this girl to look stupid once he basically told her she couldn't contact him because of me? I decided it was or better yet pride decided for me. So Eden kept his word and told her, and she went off again. Apparently she knew exactly who I was and that I was the ex, and she had probably asked him before was he sure we were through. She went on and on and told Eden his clothes would be in the dumpster.

"You've got clothes at this chicks house, what the crap Eden?"

He didn't respond, I guess he felt he didn't owe me and explanation at this point and once we were back in Maryland he stopped at her house and she hadn't put his things in the trash but they were on her front lawn. This was pathetic, nevertheless I hon won myself a boyfriend, and I use the term VERY loosely!